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Master Don Juan
How many people here can bench 300lbs? God knows I can't. Now, how many of you guys could bench 300lbs when you first started working out? Think about that for a second.
How do you expect to go form being an afc or even being half decent at picking up girls to automatically going out w/ 9's. It doesn't happen. You need to build up mental muscle, confidence, if you will. You don't start rock climbing by attempting everest, you work at the gym first and practice climbing every day. Do you think Hendrix decided he was going to play his Strat at Woodstock after taking years of piano lessons? Everything you do that requires skill requires practice. What makes you think that simply reading and understanding the psychology behind picking up girls will make you good at it.
Every day I see beautiful women and my friends don't wanna approach them because of fear of rejection. Yet I see them approach 5's and 6's all the time. Why do you think this is? This is the level they are comfortable with. Building up confidence in approaching women is no different. You've gotta start out somewhere. There's no way you'll successfully pull numbers from 9's if you aren't confident with 6's first. This is where the 30 day technique comes in. The 30 day technique (or 60 or 90 day even) requires you to progressively approach more and more attractive women. Start out on the first week by chatting up average girls. People you see at the bus, or in the shopping mall or grocery store. Forget about the 9's – the 9's don't exist yet. Only focus on working on 6's or 7's and become very very good at it. Learn different approaches and learn different techniques. Practice whatever works best for you.
During the second and third week step it up a little. Just as you would increase your weights or reps you do when working out start to build up your confidence. Approach girls you find slightly more attractive. Start working on 7's or 8's. Approach in malls, clubs, school. Start with small talk. The whole point of this is not to necessarily get the number (you damn well better try though). The point is to make you comfortable doing cold approaches and working and speaking with women who are extremely good looking. Keep building and approach AT LEAST 1 WOMAN A DAY! The success of this system is that you do at least 1 approach each day. If you only go to the gym once a week you're not gonna get anywhere. This is no different.
On the 4th an final session approach only women you find extremely attractive. Your proverbial goddess. It may seem like a far fetch now but by that time your confidence will have grown to a level where you'll be much more comfortable with it. You'll look back on a month before and laugh at being too nervous or shy to approach 6's.
The success of this system is based in experience and repetition. The same principle that builds muscle in the gym will build confidence in your life. The more often you go to the gym the stronger you'll get. The more often you approach the better you'll become at it and it will seem second nature. This is how to achieve any skill in life and picking up women is no different. It's like riding a bike – once you learn you'll never forget.
How do you expect to go form being an afc or even being half decent at picking up girls to automatically going out w/ 9's. It doesn't happen. You need to build up mental muscle, confidence, if you will. You don't start rock climbing by attempting everest, you work at the gym first and practice climbing every day. Do you think Hendrix decided he was going to play his Strat at Woodstock after taking years of piano lessons? Everything you do that requires skill requires practice. What makes you think that simply reading and understanding the psychology behind picking up girls will make you good at it.
Every day I see beautiful women and my friends don't wanna approach them because of fear of rejection. Yet I see them approach 5's and 6's all the time. Why do you think this is? This is the level they are comfortable with. Building up confidence in approaching women is no different. You've gotta start out somewhere. There's no way you'll successfully pull numbers from 9's if you aren't confident with 6's first. This is where the 30 day technique comes in. The 30 day technique (or 60 or 90 day even) requires you to progressively approach more and more attractive women. Start out on the first week by chatting up average girls. People you see at the bus, or in the shopping mall or grocery store. Forget about the 9's – the 9's don't exist yet. Only focus on working on 6's or 7's and become very very good at it. Learn different approaches and learn different techniques. Practice whatever works best for you.
During the second and third week step it up a little. Just as you would increase your weights or reps you do when working out start to build up your confidence. Approach girls you find slightly more attractive. Start working on 7's or 8's. Approach in malls, clubs, school. Start with small talk. The whole point of this is not to necessarily get the number (you damn well better try though). The point is to make you comfortable doing cold approaches and working and speaking with women who are extremely good looking. Keep building and approach AT LEAST 1 WOMAN A DAY! The success of this system is that you do at least 1 approach each day. If you only go to the gym once a week you're not gonna get anywhere. This is no different.
On the 4th an final session approach only women you find extremely attractive. Your proverbial goddess. It may seem like a far fetch now but by that time your confidence will have grown to a level where you'll be much more comfortable with it. You'll look back on a month before and laugh at being too nervous or shy to approach 6's.
The success of this system is based in experience and repetition. The same principle that builds muscle in the gym will build confidence in your life. The more often you go to the gym the stronger you'll get. The more often you approach the better you'll become at it and it will seem second nature. This is how to achieve any skill in life and picking up women is no different. It's like riding a bike – once you learn you'll never forget.