"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Phone vs Text game : Just Drop the Phone game?

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mackdaddy27

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One of the vin Dicarlo posts I read said that if your text game is good enough
then you dont need to have any phone game, you can set up the meeting via text message.


the advantages being you can better plan out text messages,...

lose less potential status by not having to call again...


YOU can almost the same things in Text vs Phones
..push pull
..break away look away and come back
..break rapport, make rapport
..roleplaying
..teasing
..****y&funny
..dhv & social proof

except the obivous
then claw , pull her towards you, and lead her out of the club.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Calling is far better than texting. You can't get any tone or emotion across via a text message, you can at least get some through with a call. Texting requires no balls to do, which is why so many men use it with women. You want to stand out, not blend in with the chumps.

I only text girls when I want to mess with them or make a teasing comment.
 
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