"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Phone Game Tips

navyseal2101

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I haven't really called a girl before, and this new chick I picked up told me I better call her, I don't see her in person really without setting up a date so what are the basics of phone game?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Randallpink83

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one of the main things is don't TRY too hard... Don't try and be overly cool... Don't try and make her laugh constantly... In fact the more nonchalant, er normal rather the better.

There is more advanced areas of phone game... but in the beginning just to help you from hurting yourself... DON'T TRY... Just call and be totally chill and normal.

This will take away alot of the stress and anxiety you might have before you make the call. Because you know everything will be fine, You don't have to be anything on the phone.
 
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