I met this girl and I have a question about phone call length. First thing is that she can call me, but I cant call her. The only place I can call her is at her grandmother's house.Her dad is kinda over protective if you know what I mean. When I talk to her I only spend like 10-15 minutes. I always say I have something else to do and I'll talk to her later to end the conversation. When I'm away she calls my house about 2-3 times. Well she said that she can only have freinds for right now. I've hinted that I didn't wanna be in the freind zone. When she told me last night that she was going bathe...I asked her could I join...she just laugh and told me to call her tommorow at her grandmother's. Before she hung up I told her to go wash her dirty behind then. She laughed again and told me maybe some other day I could join. I was just wondering do I gradually increase the minutes I spend on the phone with her or do I stay with the current minutes?
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Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Phone Call Question
- Thread starter Solja J
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Keep the phone call length short, 5-15 minutes is good...But don't talk to her everyday. Maybe every 3 or so. Oh, and here's something you can hint towards her: Friends...With Benefits. 
That's within her limit. Keep up the good work with the "go wash your dirty behind" stuff.
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