"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Personal trainer as a proffesion.

Aiken_Drum

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I was wondering, how much can someone make working @ a gym?
I know that it changes a lot from area to area but I'm curious.
Also, how about being a personal trainer (getting some guy to pay you to teach him forms & all that stuff)? What's the average income per hour for that?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Eltosian

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Originally posted by Aiken_Drum:
I was wondering, how much can someone make working @ a gym?
I know that it changes a lot from area to area but I'm curious.
Also, how about being a personal trainer (getting some guy to pay you to teach him forms & all that stuff)? What's the average income per hour for that?
http://www.drsquat.com/index.cfm?action=viewarticle&articleID=61

Here's a good article if you want to be a strength coach.
 

chim_chim

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You're better off being the boss(orthopedic surgeon/doctor) if you're smart enough. Most of the trainers I talk to say they wish they would've gone that route.
 
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