"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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white cloud 8

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Hi,

Long story short, I was chatting with my girlfriend (of a little over two months) online today, she is currently traveling Europe. I don't know what it was but, her teasing was really annoying me, and I felt pissed off so, most of my responses were short. It is odd, I don't know why I feel like this, could there be a reason why it seems sometimes I can't take a joke? could it be psychological?

*Am I mad at the other person for some reason or am I mad at myself?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Morphiex

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jeleousy pherhaps ?

psychological yes ... emotions are usually psychological effects....

but as i said i used to be a little snippety at people who i was jeleous of.... but i grew as a person and now im happy for others acomplisments and strive to better myself rather then to critizise others....

it could also just be that you need to take life a little more lightly , enjoy the jokes , know that theres nothing more important than enjoying life with the people you like...
 

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we have this old saying that goes , eff em if they cant take a joke.
i was about your age the first time i heard it and was going thru a rough time. i didnt get it then, however now i do. the entire line was clearly made in reference to me at that period in time.
 

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Morphiex said:
jeleousy pherhaps ?

psychological yes ... emotions are usually psychological effects....

but as i said i used to be a little snippety at people who i was jeleous of.... but i grew as a person and now im happy for others acomplisments and strive to better myself rather then to critizise others....

it could also just be that you need to take life a little more lightly , enjoy the jokes , know that theres nothing more important than enjoying life with the people you like...
no, its not jealousy (i'm not jealous of her). i guess some of her teasing pissed me off (in a way) i don't know why it would but, it did and i felt annoyed.
 
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