Persistence a few words

[centurionlemas]

Whats everyone's opinions on using persistence to attract a girl who is not attracted to you?

Do you believe persistence can led to attraction?

Can being persistent lead to dependence which you can use later to disappear and then re-appear building attraction and mystery to your 'relationship'? :rock:

 

[Packers2010]

it can work. but are you ready toput up with 7 years of waiting....


...i didn't think so.

 

[Furyguy]

Don't really know what you mean by persistence, if you could spell it out a bit more clearly.

When I was first starting out I used to spend a lot of time with this chick who would literally make me start from scratch EVERY time I saw her. I would have to take her through the entire attraction process, DHV, build rapport, flirt, build comfort, escalate, sex, literally every single time I wanted to sleep with this girl.

Usually after you meet up with a girl JUST to bang a couple of times, you can start to skip all that bull**** and just go straight to the sex part, but this chick would always shut me down when I tried that.

Anyways, after probably four months of this sh*t she finally let it go and we could just f*ck without all the dumb crap leading up to it. Some girls just want to make you work for it so they don't feel like a ho. Some more than others.

If that's the kind of chick she is, she's either
A) going to make you work for it, or
B) f*ck the guy who turns her on so much he doesn't have to work for it.

If that's who you want, put your time in and play the Game.

 

[PapiChulo]

If it's 0 interest - you are waisting time and get oneitis. If there is time it may pay off, but the deal is that it takes time, and she has options. That's when you realize that you put all this work in and she went with some other dude who she met 2 days ago. Either way, make sure it's low effort ob your part cause you don't wanna jump thru the stupid hoops she puts up.

 

[PapiChulo]

If it's 0 interest - you are waisting time and get oneitis. If there is some interest it may pay off, but the deal is that it takes time, and she has options. That's when you realize that you put all this work in and she went with some other dude who she met 2 days ago. Either way, make sure it's low effort on your part cause you don't wanna jump thru the stupid hoops she puts up. But generally, the more you jump thru the hoops, the less interest she has.

 

[SamTheHobit]

Yes exactly what you said there is a good chance.

 

[LuisGarcia10]

If the girl is showing that she's maybe interested then it's worth a bit of persistence, some girls just want to be chased a bit before they get with you.
But if they're absolutely showing 0 interest, then it's a waste of time, and you're just constantly trying with no results, then you're wasting you're own time and to be honest making yourself look a bit pathetic.
In my experience, every girl I've been with has showed high IL pretty quickly and not required any persistence, although I do obvously know that that isn't always the case.