"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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pepsi or coke?

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need to know the best way to handle a situation. I picked up my lunch today from a local restaurant. I had called in the order before I went and when I ordered a Coke with my lunch, the girl on the phone asked me if Pepsi would be ok. I paused strategically and said "yeh, i guess...for today!" She seemed to like my comment. When I went to pick up my order inside the restaurant, the girl on the phone turned out to be a hottie. She was telling me about how, when she lived in Atlanta, she noticed that fewer people drank pepsi there because that's where Coca-Cola originated. She was giving great eye contact and smiling and going into detail within our conversation (didn't get her name, though). Next week, i'll be moving 3 hours away. I'll be back periodically to see friends and spend time at the beach. How do I go back and get this girl's name and phone# before I leave? Thanks in advance.

,dj disciple
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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hey he could just ask her
 

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Since she likes you: Talk to her again, mention your situation, ask what her name is, and grab her cell number because YOU want to spend time with her when youre around. She has no reason to say no. She can always turn you down later on the phone if she isnt interested or not answer in the first place.
 
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