"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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People in Japan (tokyo and Osaka) and Dubai (plus middle East)

Heretolearn

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Hi,

I may be moving to one of these places soon.

Anyone been/lived there that can explain what the people are like especially the females.

I am white caucasian. How are the locals to foreigners? I do not want to go there and just hang out with other Australians. I want to be accepted into the cultures.

thanks
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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yendor28 said:
Hi,

I may be moving to one of these places soon.

Anyone been/lived there that can explain what the people are like especially the females.

I am white caucasian. How are the locals to foreigners? I do not want to go there and just hang out with other Australians. I want to be accepted into the cultures.

thanks
Post should go to "anything else"...
 

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If you want some female attention and action go to Japan.

I don't know about Dubai, its a muslim country and by that token alone you might have trouble hooking up with women there due to very conservative and religious ideologies.
 

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I spent 3 months in Dubai on vacation, so I might have some insight. I have Persian roots, so I didn't stick out as a sore thumb when I was there. :p

Anyways, Dubai is probably one of the most modern contries ever. The local Arabs don't do sh!t as they are loaded with some serious money. So you have all these immigrants coming from China and other backwards countries working there for pittyful wages.

The good thing about being a Westerner in Dubai, is that you can buy booze from special shops and bars that only cateer to foreigners. Even though Dubai is pretty modern, please keep in mind that it is afterall a muslim country. This means that you should keep your head down, and don't go overboard with either the booze or the hunt for some ass. It can get your ass in some serious trouble.

Now there are tons of P4P girls around, there are chineese hoes walking up and down the streets all day long. Needless to say, stay away from them. When it comes to picking up local chicks, things kinda get tricky. As mentioned above, it is a muslim country and most if not all females are wearing hijab or covering their bodies. I didn't have any luck by going up to females at the mall and striking a convo. But maybe since you are caucaisian you might have better luck. However I would advice against this, as the male arab relatives are very overprotective and this could lead to problems.

My best suggesiton would be to get to know some locals, hand out with, become friends with them and then get introduced to females through them. From experience arab chicks are horny as hell. It is not unusual to go to the mall and see a group of females covered in black drapes from head to toe, checking out some sexy lingerie from Agent Provocature. In public they try to be all pristine, but once they are within the four walls of the house, the true slut in them comes out. Due to the whole 'virgin until marriage' thing, most of the arab chicks I met (5 in total) were into anal, and they could suck a football through a hoze. BUT don't think about ONS and being a butterfly when you are there. If you get involved with an arab chick, and then dump here, there is a good chance that her male relatives will hunt your ass down. I got by by keeping my head down and flying under the rader. Discretion is key.

If you want to get tons of girls, go to Japan.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Go to Asia. With a significant percentage of chicks in Asia, you get to be a minor celebrity by virtue of being a white man in their midst.
 

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Thanks for the replies.

To make this clear.

I a NOT going to these places for the sole purpose to meet people especially women

I am potentially going for a change of lifestyle and new job. A important factor for me for where I live IS meeting people including women. Thus the information is important.

Eg. One option is working on site with 200 men. I do not consider this a viable long term option because I do want to meet new people regularly including women. I would love to have a good relationship with a woman, marriage and kids oneday IF APPLICABLE. This would not be possible in the way I want if I was to work at site.
 

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yendor28 said:
Thanks for the replies.

To make this clear.

I a NOT going to these places for the sole purpose to meet people especially women

I am potentially going for a change of lifestyle and new job. A important factor for me for where I live IS meeting people including women. Thus the information is important.

Eg. One option is working on site with 200 men. I do not consider this a viable long term option because I do want to meet new people regularly including women. I would love to have a good relationship with a woman, marriage and kids oneday IF APPLICABLE. This would not be possible in the way I want if I was to work at site.
If I was single...you can bet your azz that meeting women would be VERY HIGH in my list of things.

Now...forget about who you meet at work and focus on who you might meet OUTSIDE of work.

I think it is a no brainer: Japan!

UNLESS you are going to Dubai for ONE year and getting tax-free serious cash and couple weeks vacation ANYWHERE you want.
 

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MacAvoy said:
Arab countries are the best place for rape. The women won't go to the law out of shame. Go hog wild.
Who wants to rape?

For the same token...most extreme Muslim countries are the type that if a woman does not marry virgin...she can be killed.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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