I was trying to find a decent analogy to put you in the picture.
Crayfishing was the best I could come up with...
They go out in the ocean. They put one craypot out then move on and put another craypot out and so on, they don't sit there (patiently) waiting for their first pot to land a crayfish before moving on... Put your craypot out for a girl, then forget about her, keep putting more pots out.
If the first girl doesn't call... BIG DEAL! You should have another 50 pots out there to potentially score a girl.
Ojete had a good point, once women know they have some competition for a guy... It's on for young and old. One thing that will make you more attractive to women is to already have an attractive woman. Chicks are weird!