"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Party ideas, locations, etc.

Maeisgood

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Parties are the easiest way to meet chicks, hook up, etc. and are important to the DJ lifestyle.

In high school (or college during breaks) sometimes party locations can be hard to find.

Recently I have been having parties in hidden construction sites. The housing market is bad, so there are probably many of these across America. Find such a clearing in the woods where the site cannot be seen from roads, houses, etc. Bring tents, jungle juice bucket, etc. If there are tents you are guaranteed kino and closeness, and someone will probably hook up. If someone does, the party will become more memorable for everyone and it will probably happen again. Clean up when you are done very well so the owners won't be suspicious and also check if its hunting season! Another reason this parties are a great idea is that girls may be frightened or at least pretend to be and that's a great opportunity to be alone with them or be a brave man. This will turn them on. Advertise on myspace or facebook or whatever. Give it a whimsical, childish name. Chicks think that cute and they'll be less afraid of "The Woods." Have pictures taken of the first one to have a way of advertising future ones. When hosting a party, people often ask "who's coming" if a lots of names are said, the probablility of people showing up is increased a lot.

Another idea I had is boat parties. If you live near a waterway, get friends with boats to get together, tie the ships together, and have an awesome time. Or, buy an inflatiable raft. Cops usually don't have ships stationed in lakes and stuff. You can be a "captain" and the station of authority is arrousing to women.

Just because you don't have a house with owners who don't give a sh!t doesn't mean you can't be a host of an awesome party.


If anyone else has any similar ideas, put them on this thread. I want you all to try this because I think you'll have fun. Let me know how it went. I want to share my good times.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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JahGlory

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I don't host my own parties, it too much to deal with. I'm lucky because I moved into an area thats full of parties all the time, whether I stay on my block, go a long way east, west, north, south, anywhere. So walk around and if you're hot chances are you'll just get invited to parties..

And if you're not then call up your school friends and ask them if they know whas up
 

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Bonfire at the beach sounds fun and lasts the whole day, i didnt read your post i only read the title, so idk if you guys want to drink or not...
 

SinJester

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Wow nice idea you must be one cool guy.

I'm with JahGlory, I don't host parties, too much work. Of course if you do its damn good social proof, at least if the parties you host are good. Unfortunately we don't have any parties here like the ones you host.

I don't get the deal with guys who think you need to be invited to parties. I have a network, I hear about a party, I go to it if I think it's going to be good. It would be pretty rare to get kicked out, and even if you do its probably one of those crappy strict invite only parties with like 20 people.

I don't host the party, I AM the party ;)
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Maeisgood

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No other ideas? I don't own my own place yet so I'm looking for ideas and was hoping to share mine with others. There are always people looking for places to go and they can be hard to find.
 
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