"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Party Field Report

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So I'm at this party socializing and I'm standing outside. All of a sudden some random cute chic just bumped into me so I started talking to her. We were both pretty drunk, but I could still tell she was almost instantly attracted to me. From the very introduction our faces werent 10 inches appart. When I can tell a girls into me, I lower my voice so its a little deeper and more seductive, and it lets her know I'm into her, so I did that from the "hello". We introduced, and we barely got passed "how are you doing" and then we were already making out. It was kinda funny, felt weird being part of the 'couple that is making out over there'. Fun though, after a little bit one of her friends came and dragged her off and I went back to chillin with my buddies. It was a fun night :up:
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Try a sober one next time. They're a little tougher. :yes:

But good for you! Sounds like you had a blast.
 
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Don't call talking to women field reports. It sounds more like an obligation to prove your self, rather than a passion to improve your self. Good work though. :up:
 
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haha thanks, no I didnt get her number, we were both trashed, it woulda been awkward calling her afterwords "uh, hi we met drunk the other day at a party" "oh, yeah, right..." hah
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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