"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Party crashing and getting girls where you live

Maxtro

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I'm currently living in a huge apartment complex that has tons of college people living in it. Every Friday and Saturday night there are parties in the units next to me. I have yet to walk around the complex at night and see what is going on.

So here's the deal. I don't know anybody in the city that I live in. My roommate and I are basically strangers but that's a different issue. So what would be the best way to get to know people that live in the complex.

My ultimate goal is to get to know many girls that live in this complex, and there are lots of hot girls here.

What is the best course of action?

BTW even though I am 27, I do not look or act like it at all. Most people think I'm 3-5 years younger than I actually am.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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DJDamage

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Start out small by saying hello with a smile to every hot chick you meet in your building just walking in the hall or on the elevator, this way you break the barrier of being a stranger.

After a while start with small talk and find out things about them and relate it back to you. If you are a cool guy you will be invited to the parties.

Personally I would try to avoid the whole "college" party scene all together because that means you will have to hang out with teenagers in their world and their elements and be the old guy.

I would bypass that and just ask these hot girls out as soon as possible (or as soon as I feel they are comfortable around me). Of coarse at this point you are risking a sh1tty building atmosphere if you break a girl's heart and she goes all psycho on you which will hinder you from hooking up with other chicks in the future.

Hope this helped.
 

mpimpin

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Start off with smiling and saying hello to not only the girls but the guys as well. Once you do that if you see your neighbors out say hello make small talk. Ask if they like living there, or how long they've been there etc.

Throw a party of your own once you know some people in the city and invite your neighbors.

Have a keg and the college kids will come
 

Maxtro

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Small talk is going to be hard because I just see people as I'm walking by them. I can get off a "Hi" and not much else. I've never actually met my neighbors. It's far too soon for me to throw a party now but a definite possibility in the future.

Honestly I'm not much of a party guy, I'm just trying too look at the shortest route to getting with a girl. Hooking up with a girl at a party seems much more natural than asking out a random girl I see walking around.
 
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