"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Part II

Dukester

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Ok, I know it's wed already (cant believe it), but this is the 1st time i've been able to check the boards. Plus, dont really come here everyday n e way.


But here is the aftermath of the DJ day I had planned for Saturday (some of you may have read my thread "The Before Part")...

a refresh. the goal: DJ as many girls as i could at the mall, iniate convo, get number, anything.

well, that didnt really go as well as planned, for several reasons.
1. not too many HB's at the mall
2. most were in the 12-16 range
3. wasnt in the mall as long as i wouldve liked

i did iniate some convo w/ the hostess at the restaurant i ate ate, but i didnt bother asking her for her number.

the day wasnt a total waste however !!!!

later that night i went to a Halo2 party w/ a bunch of guys. It was a mixture of an alcohol, and H2 party- so there was girls there. I was a DD, so I didnt drink too much- just got tipsy, then gave myself enough time to drive SAFELY.

was playing some H2, when this amazing HB9 comes up to me. was really no room for her to sit, so she sat on my lap while i played. end of the game, i set my controller down (I had been playing a/b the whole night). we went upstairs to see what was going on.

this girl was already drunk- not too far gone- but i could tell. we drank some more and ended up going back downstairs.

There were a few losers who were still playing H2 (hell i would be too since i wasnt drinking, but i had this chick to deal w/).
We watched them play, and then we got board, and went into someones bedroom.

Didnt really do much. no sex. no bj. we made out, i got her shirt off, etc... really into it big time.

Another success- and plus- what a great way to initiate my single life again. Hell ya- i'm back...
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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FreeStyleZ

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how do u mack on a ***** at a halo 2 party.

"Hey girl let me impress you with my ub3r l337 skillz.... ill headshot this newbie and he has overshield!! lolz r0x0rz own3d!"
 

evolvingnerd

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Originally posted by FreeStyleZ
how do u mack on a ***** at a halo 2 party.

"Hey girl let me impress you with my ub3r l337 skillz.... ill headshot this newbie and he has overshield!! lolz r0x0rz own3d!"
rofl exactly what i was thinking!
 
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