"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Parental alienation

Boris Rum

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One of the greatest fears of a mother in our current messed up world is when a child or children have a normal relationship with their dad, especially after divorce. This is especially true when the court has awarded joint, shared or some kind of co-parenting. Most mothers in this situation hate to see dad having a normal relationship with the kids.

While most dads are busy doing fun stuff during their parenting time such as camping, sports, hunting etc with the kids, mom spends most of her time trying to alienate the kids. She will do all she can to sabotage dad / child relationship, eventually leading to ruined relationships. Most dads will eventually give up or continue parenting, but raising kids who are total strangers, defiant etc.

The sad part is that most kids will take mom’s side, and if they are boys, they end being blue pill and eventually one day will come to Sosuave to vent their frustrations with life and women. Girls end up having dad issues and become mentally and emotionally unstable. Sucks but true and the circle continues, but guess what, mom is now happy.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Scaramouche

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Hi Boris,
Yes that was my experience,very sad really as it fvcked up three young lives.
 
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