"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Paid gig, not for me.

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Are there others like me ? I am just out of a five year LTR. Been a month now. Was feeling horny. Spent $250 and learnt my lesson. Rollo says that genuine desire can't be negotiated. It's even more of a no brainer that desire cannot be purchased.
Long story short : **** didn't rise to the occasion. The jaded look on the face of the escort, her going through the motions were a huge turnoff. Anyway, money wasted and lesson learnt. Paid sex is not for me. Has never worked, will never work.
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"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Sure. Im sure there is no shortage of guys here who have "never paid for sex". They are even proud of it.
 

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Yup, I’d feel exactly the same way I’m sure. Never have used a sex worker before because i find it disgusting and reductive.

Are there others like me ? I am just out of a five year LTR. Been a month now. Was feeling horny. Spent $250 and learnt my lesson. Rollo says that genuine desire can't be negotiated. It's even more of a no brainer that desire cannot be purchased.
Long story short : **** didn't rise to the occasion. The jaded look on the face of the escort, her going through the motions were a huge turnoff. Anyway, money wasted and lesson learnt. Paid sex is not for me. Has never worked, will never work.
Anymore people like me here ?
 

Slowhandluke

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Are there others like me ? I am just out of a five year LTR. Been a month now. Was feeling horny. Spent $250 and learnt my lesson. Rollo says that genuine desire can't be negotiated. It's even more of a no brainer that desire cannot be purchased.
Long story short : **** didn't rise to the occasion. The jaded look on the face of the escort, her going through the motions were a huge turnoff. Anyway, money wasted and lesson learnt. Paid sex is not for me. Has never worked, will never work.
Anymore people like me here ?

If you don't have sex with a girl for a very long time, what do you do with the blue balls??????? Go monk? Or do you just rub one out every now and then? If you just rub one out, what's the difference between that and getting a professional? Do you have more desire for your hand than for an actual girl (who granted may not really want to have sex with you)? Or is it about just saving the money? I'm genuinely interested.
 
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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Rollo says that genuine desire can't be negotiated.
Oh, and you really think that a woman you picked up in a club and have drunk ONS with has genuine desire for you? Or that woman from Tinder that has sex on 1st or 2nd date? :rolleyes: See this recent thread for an example: https://www.sosuave.net/forum/threads/female-mind.278618/

She has that kind of 'genuine desire' for all the guys she's fvcked before you. And it either lasts for that one time or a few more lays. So how is that different from an escort? At least with the escort the exchange of services is honest and upfront. No need for acting, BSing, wasting time texting/going on dates with women you have very little interest in except for her pvssy.
 

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Are there others like me ? I am just out of a five year LTR. Been a month now. Was feeling horny. Spent $250 and learnt my lesson. Rollo says that genuine desire can't be negotiated. It's even more of a no brainer that desire cannot be purchased.
Long story short : **** didn't rise to the occasion. The jaded look on the face of the escort, her going through the motions were a huge turnoff. Anyway, money wasted and lesson learnt. Paid sex is not for me. Has never worked, will never work.
Anymore people like me here ?
Well, that's a bit like going to a restaurant one time in your life, not liking the food and then deciding never to go to a restaurant ever again.
 
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