"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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P.M. problems

MVPlaya

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I run a BootCamp thread so I occasionally send big PMs out to all the guys to make sure they stay committed. Problem is, I got 12+ guys so I need to PM 3 separate times because max users is 5, furthermore, I have to wait 60 sec between PMs, this is really annoying. Why is there a 5 user cap? If I send the same PM to more users, it would take less space on the server's HD than if I sent it 3 separate times.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Giovanni Casanova

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Both the limit on the number of users you can PM and the time limit between PMs is a method to counteract PM spamming.
 
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