"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Outrage of my country, Guyana and probobly the world!!!!!

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Today I have come to realise what Pook and even DISEL (at least one time) have tried to explain to us.

We are living a growing AFC world (it may sean general and crytical butthis is what i think). Have you DJ's not disgusted at the crap we see today. I even see a little below average girls walking liek they are Princesses and deserve to be treated as such beacause thses AFCs have given them the right to do so with their undying attention and overall worshipfull nature. PAFETIC excuse my errors, but iI am willing to be corrected by a more knowledgeable Juan. Its has been said that true DJ's are even rarer than HB10s and I testify to that.

What is our world coming to with the stench of desperation among men. "How intelegent a man may seam until he enters a bar or club". I give praise for finging this website, there is great wisdom here on the boards and especially in the DJ Bible and ebooks e.g Weapons of Mass seduction.

Well I understand that there must be some low standard existant for the more dtermind to succeed, but the AFC populationg is making me puke esp in my country. I believe that i can make a change in this but ultimately its upto the individuals to really make that a posibility.

i hearby ask permission and views of wheather or not to introduce the "DON Juan" mindset to my fellow perising citizens. Obviously i wond be converter of anykind trying to SAVE LIVES, i just want to see a change from this dreded world. Criticisy will be welcomed.:D
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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There are no great revelations here! Just tell men to man-up and turn off their tubes!
 
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