"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Out of The Ordinary

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OUT OF THE ORDINARY​

Hey up it’s your boy flows101 aint been on the forum for a while now because IV been so dame busy living life and the wonders that come with it haha.
This post is mostly for the guys who are afraid of hitting on chicks in the daytime, I just have to point out to you guys that it’s probably the easiest way to meet women, that been said night game can also be a grate way as well lol, but for the sake off this post I’ll only be focusing on day game. Any way enough with my rambling lets get on with it, “I want you to walk with me……….”

Every weekday loads of young single woman wake up in the morning get dressed, put on there make up, perfume and all that stuff just to get ready for the dull, boring day ahead of them. They go to work or school, do what they do take there lunch brakes, finish work and go home, it’s usually the same thing 5 days in the week nothing OUT OF THE ORDINARY ever happens to them.

Until one day when she’s on her lunch brake or what ever, something VERY, VERY OUT OF THE ORDINARY happens, she gets HIT ON, not just by any normal guy but an AMAZING GUY (YOU!).
He just comes up out of nowhere and goes….

Amazing Guy (YOU!): Um, hi there I just noticed you from over there and just thought…………. Well I thought… you seem like a pretty interesting person I just have to come meet you….. Um, what’s your name?

HB: (look of shook and surprise) … um… HB

Amazing Guy (YOU!): Nice to meet you HB, you can call me Amazing Guy (shakes hands)

After the introductions the amazing guy (YOU!) just takes it from there and goes with the flow making sure to SOI and all the other stuff, BUT he doesn’t stay for more then 10 – 20min because HE’S A BUSY GUY he has places to go, things to do and people to see. He ether arranges a meet up or number closes or both (both been the best option).

(Note: When number closing remember to put YOUR NUMBER AND NAME IN THE HB’S PHONE AS WELL, so when you do get round to calling or txting her she’ll know exactly who it is.)

Ok after the amazing guy (YOU!) leaves this is what will happen, SHE WILL TELL ALLLLL HER FRIENDS ABOUT HER DAY and THE AMAZING GUY (YOU!) SHE MET :D.

The point is this hitting on chicks in the day (if you do it right of course) is VERY OUT OF THE ORDINARY FOR THEM, if you don’t believe me when you do it ask them if they usually have guys coming up to them in the DAY saying “they just had to come over and meet them” 99% of the time the answer will be NOOOOO, THAT’S WHY IT WORKS SO WELL. Let me put it this way the same woman you hit on in a bar on a night out with the lads who REJECTS YOU could off been the same women who would of gave you her number in an INSTANT if you had hit on her in the day time.(I still don’t get this myself lol)

Anyway it looks like time's catching up to me so am just goner leave it there, but let me just point out that summer time is the best period for day game so you guys have get your **** together GOOD LUCK!
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Yes, good post. I'm currently reading 'The Seducer's Diary' by Soren Kierkegaard, and here is a passage that basically says this exact same thing:

Social life does indeed bring one in contact with the fair sex, but there is no artistry in starting an affair there. In social life, every young girl is armed, the occasion is thread bare and repeated over and over again; she gets no voluptuous thrill. In the street, she is on the open sea and everything therefore seems more intense; it is as if there were mystery in everything.
- Johannes, The Seducer's Diary.
 
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