"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Out of the cycle

dmvdav

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It's been a little over a year since the end of my oneitis relationship, when I discovered SS. Looking back on the year I have learned so much, and feel like a better man than I've ever been. Yes, I've spent a ton of time online and reading stuff like therationalmale but at the same time, it's made me smarter, and better.

I've been in some great relationships, and I see the world in an entirely different light.
I still have a long way to go and a lot of goals to check off my list, but the most important thing i've gained this year is I can learn whatever I need to, as long as my mind is right. And now my mind is right.

What are some other great websites and communities with content to help better my life, unrelated to dating and sexual dynamics?
There are so many things I never learned when I was younger, and I felt trapped in this hopeless, lower class cycle because of that.
I love getting fired up from something I read, applying it IRL and seeing the benefits. I love feeling like I've learned something.

It's been a tough year outside of my dating life. I have a lot working against me, but I'm not sad about it. I'm ready to be the man I was born to be.
This year has been the primer, now I'm going in one hundred percent.

tl;dr: post websites that make you feel inspired and smarter.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Peaks&Valleys

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Good for you, that's great man!

I can't really recommend any other sites for you. But I have a couple books that may help you on your journey:

The Seven Habits of Highly Effective People - Steven Covey
Think and Grow Rich - Napolean Hill

I'm a little old school, so I still read books on actual paper :)

Like I said, not sure about many other communities, but I'd like to hear what other posters have to say as well.

Best of luck to you.
 

dmvdav

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Thanks for the suggestions. I will check those books out as soon as I can.

I've been reading a lot more recently because I try to avoid using the internet.
It's probably the worst distraction there is in my life.
 

Trixx

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Another great book is:

Choose Yourself - James Altucher
 
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