Other guy..?

[Vorret]

Heya,

so.. I posted a story about a girl earlier... and well they all told me to forget it.. BAH!

I kept trying, anyway...

Today I told her everything, I was at work and well I sent her an e-mail (ok ok I'm BS!!)

Anyway she answered with some long ass e-mail, she just recently broke up and well she's telling me that she isn't ready but that I'm a nice guy, cute and that I'm her type...

THEN she tells me there's that OTHER dude that she's been talking with for over a year and that he's interested too (why the ... is she telling me that?) and she don't wanna have to choose between 2 guys.

Everyone told me I was in deep ... before with my other story yet... it ain't that bad, or .. is it?

Does that mean I'm screwed?

 

[Colossus]

Shes not into you. That's plain as day.

 

[Vorret]

Why would she say that I'm her type of guy?

This is weird...

 

[tmpgstx]

Vorret .. consult the ******** dictionary ASAP.

"she isn't ready " .. to jump into a new relationship - which equates to probably not with you.

It sounds like she is opting for the other guy, othewise wouldn't have mentioned it at all.

Keep in touch with her and see what happens.

 

[Vorret]

Yeah.. I know it sounds bad..

We danced alot of slow together and she said she felt really good with me...

Bah... what can I do, I like this girl hehe.

Guess I'll have to wait!

 

[Colossus]

Originally posted by Vorret

We danced alot of slow together and she said she felt really good with me...

Not to rain on your parade or anything, but I myself have been fed that line before. The girl has some interest in you, but it seems like she thinks of you as a sweet, nice, "safe" guy. Unless you are leaving something out, this appears to be the case. I know, I know. "But she really seemed to like me."

She is most likely keeping you on the back burner while waiting for someone else to come along.

And dont "Wait" for her. Thats setting yourself up for some heartbreak. Big time.

Check in your pants. Do you have balls? Of course you do!!! Those balls produce testosterone. Feel it flowing through your veins. That is the only thing you need to go out and start claiming women for yourself. But it's going to take heart. Your going to get rejected, and it will hurt. Keep standing up and charging. Fall down, stand up. Fall down, stand up. Stand up, Stand up, Stand up!!!

 

[PuertoRican_Lover]

A woman that sends long e-mails and 'talks' to you a lot about a possibllity and talks about other dudes is not interested - the more a woman talks and explains then the less action you will get - trust me!!!

No action and all talk is a sure sign of her disinterest!!! A woman who is interested shows 'actions' (not talk) to convey her message of interest - a woman who shows her disinterest 'talks' to convey her message of disinterest and there is no action!!!!

 

[wind20mph]

hahahaha Vorret, I think you should get yourself a dating eBook. You just don't get it... do you?

I I were you I would have probably focus on attracting a woman not chasing one.

 

[PRMoon]

why the f*ck are you attempting for a girl who says she's already got another guy on the side that she's been talking to for a year? You sir need to have your head examined.

Usually I'll tell a guy not to give up but I mean come on! She's not even dating you and she's got thoughts of somebody else. You don't want to abuse yourself like that! I mean what good will come of dating a girl who had a pre interest in someone else before you got togeher? Is that really a relationship you want to partake in? You've already a disadvantage because she flat out knows that it'll be alright for her to seekout someone else with you standing there like a chump.

There are tons of girls for you to go after leave this one alone except for a ONS or some other random hook up.

Or you can go after her, let her take your wallet and kick you in the nuts... Choice is yours champ.

 

[cave dweller]

time.......

Hey,

You are wasting your time with her.

Move on..................

cave dweller

 

[Climax]

Some Advise...

Vorret: In simple words, this chick does like you, to an extent, but she just likes this OTHER guy alot more, and she is telling you that she is not going to do anything with you, in the nicest way possible, hence her telling you all that stuff about "u being her type of guy" and that "she feels good with you"... So in a way, she rejected you, but in a very "nice" and "unhurtfull" way. This does not mean that she doesnt think that u are a nice guy and that u ARE her type etc, it just means that she likes this other guy more and that she is gonna go with him and not you. Move on, forget about her.


Laterz...

 

[Vorret]

Yeah..
You guys are right, I though it trough in the night and bah, I'll move on.

No need to wait for something that will never happend!

Thanks for the comments and tips!