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Organizing first party eva for me...need advice

Jamal

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I need some advice on some things….here is the situation, my b-day was this week and right now my parents want me to have a party because they think I’m anti social. I have a list of kids…the majority of them is my friends (boys) and some cousins. I only have a few girls. I know that I have to be more social this week so I can get more girls (plus I don’t won’t a party of just boys cause that is pathetic)…but need advice?? Also I never really had a party (pretty sad) and I just want it to be fun…I need advice on that also please? I have so many things in my head right now, I don’t even know what I should tell them to come to this party? Those are the main problems I am having and the party is this Saturday so please help…thanks
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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eaglez1177

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Dude, first things first, RELAX. All you gotta do is just spread the news around your grade that your having a big party. I hope your parents are okay with everyone drinking at your party cuz if theres no booze, not a SINGLE hot girl or any of her friends is gonna want to come.
 

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Okay here is the thing...I don't think im planning on having a big party (its just not worth it cause of money for setting one up) my parents just want me to have a party with 20 people tops...have my close friends and having girls also. The party will be in the basement so parents are away from it. Just need some ideas on what to do at party. It may sound stupid but how would you ask them so that it comes out good. Need more advice in general please
 

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You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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eaglez1177

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Lol ok bro well if you wanna make sure its 20 people tops, then you better tell your friends to keep their mouths shut. News about your party is gonna travel all around the grade and people are probably gonna be showing up at your door asking to come in and you better be prepared to turn them down.

And if you dont know how to go about setting up the party or making it so that it comes out good, ask your friends for some ideas.

Where im from though, the only thing that makes a good party is boozing and playing a lot of beer pong lol. Simply just inviting people over and chilling out in your basement isnt gonna be much of a party. If you want a legit good party, then your gonna have to ask your parents if its okay for you guys to drink. If theyre against that, then your gonna have to figure out a way to sneak alcohol into your basement lol.
 
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