"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Order of Boot Camp and Bible

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I hope this is not silly question, but I have spent some time looking at the Bible 5wk reading course, the D.J. Boot Camp, and the book of Shuma Gora, and Weopans of Mass Seduction.

They seem ALL to have fantastic advice and things to do.

I was wondering in what order to do them in?

a. Whatever I feel is most comfortable

b. The 5wk course first (to get clear I suppose)

c. The D.J. Bootcamp first(To get practice)

d. Weapans of Mass Seduction ( I kinda want to do this along with the Boot Camp)

e. The Book of Shuma Gora last (After everything else)

f. All together at once (I'm kinda Partial to this especially. I don't want to overwhelm myself, so I'm thinking about starting the reading course a week ahead, then beginning the BootCamp along with Weapons, and then finishing with Shuma Gora. Of course with online Journal.


What are your opinions? I Fu*king hate being like this (AFC), and I know it ain't going to change overnight (I've being reading these boards more or less a couple months now before I joined)

What I'm looking for I suppose is a clear direction to get my bearings, you know?

Thanks for your help.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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So pimp its scary

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Don't feel bad if you don't fulfill it the first time...

It took me 3 tries to really go through the bootcamp for myself.
 
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