OPinions please

[kidkoala]

So high school is admittedly a little different from the real world. People spend a lot of time growing and experiment. I'm the average sort of guy who has a lot of hot friends that I sought out because of David D's sugestions. Hence I feel more comfortable around hot girls than a lot of people. ANd I go for the girls that a lot of people would call "tens" and haven't landed one yet. I was wondering to what affect do these girls mindset of being socially better than ppl affect pick up if others would consider u socially lower than her even if u don't. Mind you this is not about one girl it is a general idea. Girls as they grow older realize personality plays a huge role and are less interested in physicality. In high school they seem to be superficial. So basically was wondering if I should keep on persuing bass or switch to something like sole for high school. Thanks guys.

 

[DJ4Real]

Let me get this straight. You are saying that a lot of the girls that you go after are considered really hot looking. But, these girls make you feel socially inferior to them?

That's what I understand from what you said. Basically, what I would tell you is to be more confident than these girls. Obviously these girls are approached by many many guys. And to tell you the truth, either these guys try to "impress" the girls (in various ways) or they act all nice to these girls, and give the girls the upper hand. Guess what? girls aren't attracted to guys like this. Girls want a guy that is confident/****y, humorous, and unpredictable. The girls that you mention predict that guys will "pursue" them, give them compliments, and do things for them in general because they are good looking. Unfortunately, it doesn't work like that. Women want a challenge; which means women want a guy who either is hard to get, mysterious, or is difficult....you need to have at least one of these qualities to combine with your personality. I'll give you an example of some good personality traits that attract women ie ( ****y/confident, funny, thrilling, unpredictable, emotionally strong, and honest.

But basically, my opinion is: don't "pursue"any of these girls....but do things to attract them.

 

[kidkoala]

Yeah I know pursuit is bad and attracting is good. I guess I phrased my question badly. I meant do attractive attitudes work less well on these girls because they see you as socially lower than them ( I don't feel they are my socially superiors), like almost a shortcircuitness because of what they think ur social level is.

 

[DJ4Real]

No, an attractive attitude works great on these girls. You just have to have attractive qualities.