"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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LuisGarcia10

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Went out for a few drinks then to a club a few nights ago.

Went out with a few mates then got a text from a girl I know asking if I was out, text her back to let her know where we were going and ended up meeting her in a nightclub.

She came with a few mates of hers but ended up spending the night with me and let her mates go and do other stuff.

Obviously I know when a girl is flirting with me and she was touching me a lot and when we were close cuddling me etc etc, like stuff girls do when they're flirting. She started saying things like I should come out with her at the weekend and I could stay at hers etc etc. On my way home I got a text from her saying she had a nice night etc etc, so thought happy days, I'm sorted.

Then the day after she just seemed really reserved, not talkative etc. To let you know, she had had a few drinks the night before but wasn't hammered. She'd also not been drinking much when she text me asking to meet me and when she first started talking to me in the club etc.

Just generally pretty clueless as to why one night she can seem so into me and friendly and then the next really quiet and kind of back to normal? As I say, the alcohol probably helped a bit but she hadn't been drinking much and when I first met her that night had barely had a drink.

There's a couple other girls who I'm supposed to meet but I do really like this one and she'd be number one if I could choose. Just interested to know why girls blow hot and cold so much and if anyone else has had stuff like this before?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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BustedKnucks

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Same thing actually happened to me recently. I shrugged it off, looked elsewhere, and she ended up dating a mutual acquaintance.

Good thing there's and endless supply of girls out there, and you never know when you'll meet a hotter one.
 

Max Power

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Was she quiet on the phone or in person. I'm confused.
 

backbreaker

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dude... you can't be serious

She came with a few mates of hers but ended up spending the night with me and let her mates go and do other stuff.

WHAT THE FVCK MORE DOES A WOMAN HAVE TO DO TO TELL YOU TO FVCK HER!!!!!!!

I mean, are you waiitng for the presidnet to get on the TV and give you the Ok?

I'm joking but seriously?

you wanna know what happened? She wanted to fvck you, at a point she saw you as sexual, and you proved her wrong to the utmost extent. now she sees you as the guy who is so scared of women he can't fvck a woman who spends the night over his house..

you don't have a short leash with these broads. Fvck and duck baby

I would know because that same situation put me in a 7 year LJBFdom with my old oneitis. Came over my house (after I broke up with her best friend) at 3 in the morning, dressed in a skirt so short I could see pubic hair (not really) hanging, and said (now that I know) all the right things, and all i could do was "cuddle" with her. and she wanted it BAD. If i would have had the never (i was just 17) to fvck her like I fvcked her best friend, I probably never would have came here...so I guess it's good I didn't fvck her
 
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