"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Has anybody have any experience of using speed seduction techniques on sex/swinger type websites. I am trying to write a good advert/profile on a swinger website that will have woman dying to contact me.

I am sure you know this but just because a woman is sexually liberated and advertising on a sex website does not men she is an easy lay or somebody who will jump into bed with anybody at a drop of a hat.

The problem with sex dating websites is the men vastly outnumber the women (it is also the same for normal dating websites). Some women complain they get about 25 - 100 messages a day from single men. So I want to make myself stand out. I don't want to come across as another desperate AFC.

I want to write a profile/advert that is different and gets women who read my profile hot and bothered lol. I want the words/patterns used to make them want to contact me. If my advert/profile gets them contacting me then to me this is a plus in that they contacted me first I am not just another AFC who contacted them first.

It will also be interesting to see if NLP/speed seduction can work with just words as you cannot use other speed seduction skills like anchoring etc
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Actually, her joining one of those sites DOES mean she'll jump in bed with anybody.
 
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