"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Online Dating - Getting the digits?

diggnashun

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Alright fellas, talking to this good looking girl on okcupid, fun conversation going:

Me:Howdy, I am a good Catholic man who would like to engage in sexual intercourse in the missionary position (for the sole purpose of procreation) with you... oh wait, you like (mutual website interest)...nevermind, we would just end up talking about the same pictures of cats all day.

Her: hey, i like cats! I will outdebate your atheist ass all day.

Me: Oh great, next youre going to tell me you dont shave your body hair and your idol is Janeane Garofalo.

Her: I like her! And yes, i shave, except in the winter when im single :D

Do I A. ask for digits with hint of a plan, B. ask for digits, C. keep up witty banter, D. "Run mofugga, this girl has a catlike bush in her pants!" or E. (Insert great suggestion I hadn't thought of).
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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element0

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Keep up witty banter for a few more messages (2 or 3 more), then ask for digits.
 

Allurre

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Exactly what Element said. Make sure to transition smoothly.

You can change your tone a bit when telling her to give you her number.

"I like your humor cat woman, lets meet up sometime. Give me your number."
 
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