"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Online Dating First Email Problems

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Mantis Toboggan

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CaptainJon, your email sounds too bland. Also, you don't have to write so much about yourself....your profile does that for you.

My first email to these girls is 2-3 sentences about something interesting i see on their profile. "I see you're pretty good at cooking Thai food. Gotta admit, I'm kinda jealous. Have you ever been to Thailand before?"

Either they reply or they don't, but I'm not investing a lot of time into writing them. Just something semi-interesting to get their attention, and show that you're not just writing "Sup sexy. Wanna chill sometime?" It's all gonna come down to whether or not she finds you attractive anyway....so no point in writing too much in the first message
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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CaptainJon said:
thanks for the great tips so far...
yahoo personals i heard is great, but i havent been a paying member yet just created my profile recently. .
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do yourself a favor.

don't waste money on yahoo personals.

I did for a short period.

conversed with a few and when it was time to set a date to meet up, they ALL were suddenly out of the country and wanted me to wire them money for whatever reason each one had.

LOTS of nigerian scams there folks.

you'll be more successful on match or okcupid (free)
 
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