Oneitus strikes again. But I think I got the cure for your sickness.

[shesabranchswinger]

Wait, so you're sleeping with her? And she says she loves you? I think you're thinking too hard on this man. Listen to ACTIONS. My current oneitis would say stuff like that but she never backed it up with actions. I naturally have an insecurity for stuff like that so it was like an automatic lie detection.

If your girl is telling you via actions, then that is all you need. Women don't know how to be smooth or upfront with themselves but their actions do.

The whole cake and eating it thing... Give her a slice. Give her 4 slices. Just don't give the entire thing to do her.

And the girl I'm talking to is 18, I'm only 21.

You must have misunderstood me or I wrote something incorrect. I am not sleeping with Oneitus . I am sleeping with her friend. The whole cake is referencing Oneitus wanting to keep me in the friend zone stringing me along saying maybe some day in the future we will be together while she looks for Mr rite. last time we hung out I'm pretty sure I could have closed the deal from how the night was going but I clipped her instead. But I'm sure there would have been the old I think we made a mistake speech in the morning or it would have turned into friends with benefits both situations I want nothing to do with with this particular woman. At this point I believe I made the correct choice by clipping her as anything else would be inviting unneeded drama into my life.

Man she's 18 I know it's easier said than done but clip her now and don't look back or drama will not be far behind. If you can't deal with her without getting emotional then she knows your buttons and women love to push buttons. I've had about 3 women in my life that could get to me and this was the queen. I hope your smarter than me and it only takes you this 1.