"Oneitis"

[OlympicTim]

Hey guys so this is probably a question thats been asked 10000 million times but I couldnt find it anywhere. Anyways so theres a chick that I really like to me she seems like the perfect chick even though if I were to date her and whatever she probably wont be.

Anyways whats the best way to deal with oneitis? Do I show her im interested by asking her out or do I just forget about her and try to get otbwe girls

 

[GeoMan]

I feel like every male on the planet has been through this atleast once lol. In my opinion you just cant put a girl on a pedestal now a days. In some weird way it just seems to reduce your value to them.

 

[Tictac]

even though if I were to date her and whatever she probably wont be.

Anyways whats the best way to deal with oneitis? Do I show her im interested by asking her out or do I just forget about her and try to get otbwe girls

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You talk yourself out of even asking her out before you've even met her.

You cannot have 'oneitis' with a woman you haven't even been out with.

So sure forget all about her. Since you don't know anything about her and she doesn't know anything about you, it should be simple.

With attitude and 'technique' like this, you may get a date sometime during your life.

 

[piranha45]

If you fixate yourself on only 1 woman, you will get one-itis. You can't settle for 1 quality woman, and fool yourself into believing you're never going to get emotionally attached to her.

The only way to bypass oneitis is by engaging sexually with MULTIPLE women. We call that "spinning plates".

The answer you seek is herein:
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=90482