One of the things I cannot get about the game.

[rhythmic]

Because no one is the supreme master of the universe 100% of the time.

This is an important realisation, and one everyone should hold on to.

HOWEVER. You can learn to read your mood and thought patterns, and spend your time in a way that compliments how you're feeling.

Feeling productive? Get on with something important to you.
Feeling your game? Go find a woman and enjoy yourself.
Feeling down? Do something that will improve your mood.
Feeling lazy? Well, sleep is important... And hopefully your mood will change when you wake up.

It's important not to do things that totally clash with your mood. If you're feeling slow and dull, you don't really want to be meeting women - you have a high chance of having a bad experience in this state which will negatively influence your future and your self-perception.

It's also a snowball effect - the more you get in touch with your moods and thought patterns, the better you learn to deal with them in the best way, and the more control you'll eventually have over them.

 

[TheMoscower]

This is an important realisation, and one everyone should hold on to...

Its interesting, rhythmic, I was always thinking in the opposite way.

For me our mood is something that is not quite ours. It depends from many things - which are mostly external. Some curcumstances, good or bad news in job, in relationship, in favourite sport may be, good weather or bad - you know, so many things around us can touch our mood.. And we cannot afford ourselfes live according that external circumstances, its like being a ship which sails in the direction of wind without its own one.
What is more important - you can train yourself to have every possible mood. You can overcome the "wrong" mood and become suit for some interesting action. And you can get used to be in the "wrong" mood all the time.

So for me our mood is like a weather - it can be good, or bad, but do you homework anyway

 

[TheMoscower]

Falcon, for me creating a family and chasing the women for sex are the two worlds that reside on opposite corners of universe.

The reason why is because the qualities I want to see in my wife are absolutely different from the qualities I want to see in the girl I am trying to pick up.

I dont need a model-looking wife, I dont want her to be easy-going with men etc.
As a wife I want:
1) close friend till my last day
2) mother of my chidren, the more kids - the better

But this is another world. What this stuff have in common with the game? The game is just a hobby. I am trying to learn surfing, though its almost impossible for me because I cannot surf in Russia and I can surf only during my travels, and even if I would succeed - what is the end of surfing game? It doesn't exist, its just fun. Same with women. Family is absolutely another game for me, and actually I cannot take it as a game, its serious.

Or may be you are talking about the motivation in the game? Motivate yourself for some higher goal?

 

[Bokanovsky]

You shouldn't have to be faking game. It should be to the point where it's wired in you automatically, part of your subconscious. Pick out your favorite character traits, and practice, practice, practice on being that person. Eventually, you will not have to think or analyze about being someone, it will come naturally. And I'm not even talking about "game." I'm talking about being a Man, a Leader, A DJ.
Hebbs Law- what fires together, wire together.

The only way it is going to be "hard wired" in you is if you are a natural. For most men, game is an acquired skill that requires ongoing practice. It's like playing a sport. Even the best professional athletes constantly train to stay at the top of their game.