"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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one of the most ALPHA convos Ive heard...

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This is a series of the Vikings when they use to plunder England and other country's for riches.

The dude having the convo with the woman is the brother's king. Went something like this..(the woman is hes GF)

Woman: why did you come back?
Viking: i was hungry

She sits down with him to talk while hes eating.

woman: how many woman have you being with?
woman: i dont supose you know?
viking: i do wat i want here
woman: i thought we came here together
viking: we did come here together we are together
viking: i am who i am. i wont change not for you not for my brother not for anyone so leave if you want too.
viking: but one day i will be a great man, a great leader, and you will regret leaving me just because i sleep with other woman.

i guess this is how the alpha's use to be back in the dark ages.

i was like damn lol.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Context: she started nagging after she saw him banging a bunch of young girls outdoor.
 

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What sort of world are we in where even guys on a forum like this are using fiction and a scenario concocted by writers as evidence worthy of discussing sexual market place dynamics?

I mean, I've seen GIRLS reference BS like tv dramas and movies as examples of what to do, how things work, where to get advice, etc.

But here?

In short, scenes from television and the movies can be set up to say and do anything the writers and directors want. It's not real. Do look at that crap as anything worthy of gleaning insight and information from.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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In short, scenes from television and the movies can be set up to say and do anything the writers and directors want. It's not real. Do look at that crap as anything worthy of gleaning insight and information from.

So what? Do scenarios present in TV never happen in real life? They do. And when you see how an alpha male handles it...whether its on TV or real life...its a learning opportunity.
 

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I watched the first few episodes, the guy is pretty Alpha. Well I assume you mean the main guy.

This makes me think about media, because obviously the writers know how an Alpha acts... yet there is all these shows that have wussy behaviour from pc's.

So that makes me conclude it's done on purpose to try to keep men down. Though that's not a surprise to anybody is it. :Z
 
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