Hey! Im still in High school. I talk to lots of people, im not shy or anything. Theres this girl i started talking to though, I had seen her around school she seemed really quiet (and so she is.) Shes a real cool girl, shes attractive n all. We chilled and went to the movies once before but i had to do like 70% of the conecersation initiation. Its always like this with her. Im the one that starts up a conversation. Shes like this with pretty much everyone though except her girlfriends. Lots of guys asked her out to the prom, she rejected them (I over heard many of the times.) I asked her and she accepted, so thats a sign of some interest no? Im interested in her as more than a friend, but its real hard to get to know someone when the other person has this wall i need to tear down. I make her laugh a lot, but she just doesnt spark a conversation. We were gonna go out this weekend but shes workin, so thats not gonna happen. N shes agreed to go out with me quickly as if interested, but at the same time she shows no dam emotions! NO EXCITEMENT! Ive accually told her about the uncomfotable silences, she says its just cus shes thinkin bout things... but they happen really often. ahaha i feel like an AFC writting this:nervous:. Should i play her game too and keep quiet also? Im really stumped on this chick. I started talking to her like 2 months ago by the way. And i know i got pretty good conversational skills. LOL its almost as if I have to break the ice everytime i see her! DJ's Enlighten me!!
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What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.
You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.
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Best thing to do is to figure out why she has this wall around her. Is she just a naturally shy person towards guys? Is she interested in you and is playing games? Is she just cautious towards guys who are chasing her? Is she actually very self concious and afraid of saying something stupid to you?
Once you figure out the reasons for her lack of initiation, you'll be better equipped in tackling it. You'll then be able to make more accurate actions in getting her out of her shell.
Once you figure out the reasons for her lack of initiation, you'll be better equipped in tackling it. You'll then be able to make more accurate actions in getting her out of her shell.
I have dated girls like that...the seemingly show no interest in you or anything you have to say....Frustrating!..But one of them really opend my eyes after I kinda LJBFed her for that reason. She was interested...she thoughts I was cool and all that ,just her personality was kinda boring and she didnt know how to flirt at all!...
Now..how to deal with girls like that and find out where you are with them?
First decide what you want from her...then go for it untill you get a NO!
If you want to get laid..just do the usual routine...isolate,KINO..etc untill you'll get a difinite NO...Most of the time you won't even get a NO and do get laid....makes you wonder
Now..how to deal with girls like that and find out where you are with them?
First decide what you want from her...then go for it untill you get a NO!
If you want to get laid..just do the usual routine...isolate,KINO..etc untill you'll get a difinite NO...Most of the time you won't even get a NO and do get laid....makes you wonder
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VIVAlasVEGASBaby
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It seems like she's really into you. Usually when a girl gets really shy and unresponsive around you it means she likes you. She's probably just shy (ESPECIALLY around you). Don't let it bug you. Show her a good time; see if you can loosen her up a bit
hmmm ive asked her if she was shy, she says no. lol funny thing is, i dont get any solid eye contact from her when im talking to her. Her response was, oh i just dont look at people in their eyes when im talking to them. But i mean i DO ALSO get tired of trying to get her to loosen up