"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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One f*cking itis!

vagrant

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Sorry for the bad title.

How do i deal with this?

I know thinking I'm the great catch helps a lot but I need something more than that.

I need someone to tell me that girls get laid all the time and I shouldn't worry about my girl screwing other guys now that I broke up with her because that's just the way it is.

I'm really having a hard time dealing with this.

I don't want her to have sex with other guys but at the same time I want to play around so I know it's not fair for her.

I told her she's free to do whatever she wants but damn, saying that hurts a lot.

With the divorce rate right now and how marriage is being treated I feel like keeping her because I know we have something really good going on.

But there's something in me that is asking for more. She feels I don't really love her and the chemistry isn't really there so she understands but I think there is an attraction but at the same there's an attraction for many other girls.

Can someone tell me what a GOOD girl is to you?
Someone that you think is worth it?
Please?

I need it to convince me that I have a good girl right now and that I shouldn't let her go!~
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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vagrant said:
Can someone tell me what a GOOD girl is to you?
I don't know. They're Allll fvcked.
 
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