one compliment rule

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

undesputable

Master Don Juan

May 18, 2004

a technique i havent seem much in this site, is the one compliment rule.

basically whenever you meet a really hot girl you go ahead and give her one compliment.

its gotta be unique and confident and its gotta be able to get her attention.

when you compliment her at the beggining and then follow up with the ****y and funny and busting on her, says that yea you realize that shes hot, but so what? big deal. shows that youre around girls like her and she doesnt intimidate you, and i get a lot of positive reactions.

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.