one call or two calls???

[aix237]

ok so i called up this girl today that i went out with last weekened she called to hang out. ive heard that she liked me from multiple people. a couple of weeks ago she told me all this sh*t and we kissed. then we talked again hung out last sunday. so i call her today (one week later) and she hasnt called back. the other times i called she answered or called back pretty fast. i dont know what i did neither do i care too much. she could of felt rejected or something when i didnt hug or kiss or last time we hung out. but she was like ill talk to you later this week. but now i got two options actually 3.
1. fvck it and if she calls she calls
2. call her one more time (either tonight or tomorrow)
3 text her

ive heard from a guy that has known her for a long time that she has guys lining up to go out with her and she doesnt call back and sh@t like that. so what should i do? i know i should move on but i want to make only 1 more attempt just dont know how though

 

[Pimp-sicle]

If you guys were attracted to one another and had already been out a few times, why would you wait a week to call her again??? I'm not telling you to call the day after the date or even the next day, but when you wait too long some girls take it as a sign of disinterest. However, don't freak out, give it sometime she might have plans already for tonight but if she's interested in you she'll call back at some point. Seems like your at the early to middle stages of learning how the game truely works, but one tip for you in the future. Never call girls on a Saturday evening or night and expect them not to already have plans.

I'd wait it out and see if she calls. If you don't hear anything from her call again in 4-5 days. If you dont' hear anything back............NEXT



PIMP

 

[BuckwildNYC]

Yeah I agree...... it was a big mistake to wait a whole week to call her............ especially if you guys kissed. A day or two is fine but a WEEK? It looks like you are either not interested or you are playing games.......neither is good. Then to top it off you call her on a Saturday? Now its looks like you couldn't get a date and you were calling her as a backup plan. Also not good. She was probably out on a date herself.

I wouldn't give up though. You put yourself in a bit of a hole with this girl and you are going to have to do some work to get out. She's not going to call you back after you blew her off for a week. I would say give her another call in a day or two. If she doesn't answer leave her a simple message to call you back. If she doesn't respond then wait about a week and give her one more call. If she doesn't answer this time DON'T leave a message. At this point there is nothing more you can do. You already blew it.