"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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On radio ~8:15 EST 5:15 PST tonight

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I'm going to be on the radio in about 1/2 hour discussing men's issues and dating on a syndicated show called His Side With Glenn Sacks. Glenn Sacks is a prominent father's rights activist.

New York: WSNR AM 620

Boston: WWZN AM1510

S. Cal. : KTIE AM 590

Listen in if you can. This should be fun :D.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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LOL..."Why don't we take away your right to vote and we can both be old fashioned."
 

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Marc, this was great. Just have a few questions and comments, I hope you respond!


Early on you said something along the lines of there's "right for defferential treatment or peers, but you cant have it both ways."
in regards to women. Could you expand on that a bit? That was just amazing.


Second, when the woman program on the program said she felt men were still obligated to pay even if the man has the lesser income I was laughing right there too. What a nutcase :D

Third, that remark on the old-fashioned and removing the right to vote was funny heh
As well as her being a "relationship expert" and she hasn't been married. That says a lot. Additionally the fact that she says she "won't ever pay for a date" means she's not getting married at all. What a leech.

The thing that cracked me up the most was where she said "I've chosen to be single". Chosen my ass. No one want's to date someone as uptight as her.


Ok something else I need some clarification on that confused me is the treating women like peers thing. Women don't want to date their male friends, they LJBF them. So how does this work?


Finally, just out of curiosity, how old are you?
Thanks alot, good show.
 

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ohh man its too late now, is there a rerun or is it online where i can hear it if i missed it?

thanks
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I'm not Marc

Actually, I was the "first caller" -- who didn't get to say much, beyond a comment that I generally take the lead and that it's not good to put a woman on a pedestal. I do agree with the gal that intimacy is a sort of dance, and that one should not get married until they really mean it. But she's gonna have a difficult time, because she probably doesn't know why she ain't attracted to any of the guys who pay (sic) by her rules.

Someone from the program had emailed me to invite me on as a caller after I had emailed Glenn Sacks with a comment that paying for everything attracts a woman to the money and not necessarily the man and that putting a woman on a pedestal lessens her attraction to a man.

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Layla, check the link AverageFC provided. I think you can hear archived shows.
 

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oh well now I feel like a complete fukking dumbass.


Good call though.
 

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Now I gotta wonder ...

(chuckling) I wasn't all that clear in my original post what I was to be doing, but I assumed people would pick up my Detroit location ("Our first caller, from Detroit, MI...").

Now I gotta wonder just how many people who "call in" to radio shows are, in fact, plants.

I think Glenn and his crew were a bit disappointed at my even-handedness. :D
 
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