"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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On Planning...

Sneevox

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After reading a few threads on here, I have noticed something a large amount of you young Don Juans do.

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You plan. You plan for success, you plan for pick ups, you plan for love, and you plan your happiness.

Is it possible to plan such a thing? Happiness? Is happiness a plan, or is it simply a lifestyle?

Could you say such a thing about success, love, manliness, and being a Don Juan?

Of course!

Don Juans do not need to plan such things! They simply know how to live out the lifestyle.

When a Don Juan wants to make a comeback, he does not plan it. He messages that chicky that he wanted to get back with after he fvcked up the relationship before and he gets back with her using all that he has learned.
He does not sit around and think about what he'll say! He does what works.

He does what he learned works!

A Don Juan takes the risks he needs to take so that he can learn from all of his mistakes and, rather than plan what he is going to do, know what he will do when the time arises.

Don't sit around and plan your future! If you're planning for something to happen, that means that it hasn't already happened!

Planning means that there is a chance for FAILURE when things do not go according to plan (not that failing is a bad thing, but planning leaves you stagnant once you fail.)

As Pook and many other great minds stated, "As you think, you shall become."

This means that you need to know of your success before it happens.

Delve into those situations knowing that you are going to succeed before it even happens!

As many would say, A Don Juan does not need to plan because he already knows what to do in every situation.

Namaste.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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