GloriouslyInsane
Master Don Juan
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There is a reoccuring question on these boards of the type "When is the right time to ...?".Fortunately the answer is simple and obvious,yet noone understands it,"puas" will tell you "After this incident/If this happens" etc.
This type of answer and/or knowledge comes from mostly statistics and apply to some common themes that occur "out there".But the basic principle has nothing to do with what some people try to teach you.Anybody who is truely in tune with himself answers with "you'll know when the time is right".Cliche for some and uneducated guesses for others,the point is that it is true.
Gut,instinct call it what you want is the #1 judge of when is the right time for any action and you can never go wrong by it.It happened to me alot of times,some i acted upon it,some i drowned that inner voice because "X or Y" didn't happen before so by the "pua" standards it wasn't the right time.A specific example was some nights before.
HB7(we'll call her brunette) in group sitting alone,had previous encounter with her,lots of kino/flirting (she has a bf).So what happens? I do my normal routine of party tricks and c+f gesturing,dance with other girls/socialise to raise my value.At one point i see an opening (sitting with absolutely nothing to do).Alas for i didn't have any IOI's (and she has a bf as stated) my calculations determined to wait a bit longer (even though my gut was screaming to approach her).Some random guy comes and picks her up,i couldn't help myself but laugh like a retard because of what just happened.
Now if we go back approx. 2 months we find ourselves in a similar situation,HB7.5(we'll call her blondie) in group sitting alone,almost an identical case,had previous flirting and she has a bf.The difference comes that when i saw that opening pua logic didn't interfere (too many drinks
) so in a swift move of alcohol stupidity i forcefully removed her drink and cigarette from her hands and pulled her on the dance floor.I could see the excitement in her eyes for the next 15 minutes.Even though i was ****blocked by a friend of hers later on it didn't really matter because i found out who the real judge is.
So forget the standards and the procedures and instead learn how to "read" situations and people and you'll know what to do and say.
This type of answer and/or knowledge comes from mostly statistics and apply to some common themes that occur "out there".But the basic principle has nothing to do with what some people try to teach you.Anybody who is truely in tune with himself answers with "you'll know when the time is right".Cliche for some and uneducated guesses for others,the point is that it is true.
Gut,instinct call it what you want is the #1 judge of when is the right time for any action and you can never go wrong by it.It happened to me alot of times,some i acted upon it,some i drowned that inner voice because "X or Y" didn't happen before so by the "pua" standards it wasn't the right time.A specific example was some nights before.
HB7(we'll call her brunette) in group sitting alone,had previous encounter with her,lots of kino/flirting (she has a bf).So what happens? I do my normal routine of party tricks and c+f gesturing,dance with other girls/socialise to raise my value.At one point i see an opening (sitting with absolutely nothing to do).Alas for i didn't have any IOI's (and she has a bf as stated) my calculations determined to wait a bit longer (even though my gut was screaming to approach her).Some random guy comes and picks her up,i couldn't help myself but laugh like a retard because of what just happened.
Now if we go back approx. 2 months we find ourselves in a similar situation,HB7.5(we'll call her blondie) in group sitting alone,almost an identical case,had previous flirting and she has a bf.The difference comes that when i saw that opening pua logic didn't interfere (too many drinks
) so in a swift move of alcohol stupidity i forcefully removed her drink and cigarette from her hands and pulled her on the dance floor.I could see the excitement in her eyes for the next 15 minutes.Even though i was ****blocked by a friend of hers later on it didn't really matter because i found out who the real judge is.So forget the standards and the procedures and instead learn how to "read" situations and people and you'll know what to do and say.