“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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I'm currently very intent on making it, especially with Backbreaker and Angelus' post. However I have a problem, I still live with my family and well, let's say they're not the most functional type.

I haven't quite have enough savings to move out, but I need a better environment, especially if I was to go into day trading. Why? Because firstly, I'm the sort that has to read/learn in quiet environments, and I sure don't have that in my home. And most public areas over here are too crowded.

So if getting rich intellectually is out, then I have to go via Backbreaker's technical way, building a business with things I can already do. But even then BB had to move out of home
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Oh I just realized Angelus's posts are fake, but well my question still stands
 

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Subscribe to the World Success Alliance. Link can be found in Krassus' sig. I started a thread there for guys like you.

FYI, there are no shortcuts to building wealth. The whole debacle with Forex recently on this board worked for the troller because he played on one of man's two great soft spots - desire for money. (The other is desire for unlimited sexuality). This is exactly what happens when people get gold fever. If you want to "get rich" in reality, it can be done, and it can be done in a few short years, but it's not done overnight... unless of course have a winning lotto ticket.

Edit: You never actually asked a question in this thread.
 

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Best way to get rich is to offer a service that is not currently in the market....a gap if you will. One which would have demand if it was offered.

My brother has such an idea that will make him 150k a month (realistic projected profit). Hes currently putting it into practise and looking at patents.
 

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RedPill said:
Edit: You never actually asked a question in this thread.
I'm asking for advice on dealing with family/residential environment in my quest to get rich. I've read some self-help book and I understand the concept of adapting to external factor, taking control of self etc., but family/residence is a different topic, simply because it's something you live with everyday and can't just sever ties with
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Four words for you...

Acknowledge, and move on.

I've said it before and I'll say it again... the hardest part about becoming successful is ignoring all the noise the herd throws your way. In your case, as is the case with many people, your family is part of the herd. You may have to live with them, but you don't have to listen to them. Acknowledge what they say and do, and keeping plowing ahead with YOUR goals.

If you want to get your own place, what sort of plan have you made to leave? Set some goals and make it happen. Remember to set SMART goals.

Specific
- create X amount of income to move out
Measurable
- goal is achieved when you unpack the last box in your own place
Attainable
- Is this goal realistic? Yes.
Relevant
- Is this goal relevant to your overall goals in life? I'd say so.
Time-Framed
- When do you want to move out by? A year? Two years? Two months?

Make it happen dude!

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I have the same problem @Upper...and it's especially sort of hard, when you're supposed to study for college, but can't b/c everyone and everything around you is way too loud..have their tv's playing way too loudly and no matter how many times you ask them, they're gonna do it again every single day...and when you ask them to turn it down, they're making a big deal out of it so that after a while you really don't feel like putting up with this whole mess anymore...

so what I do..I try to study some during the day...and then study from about 12 to 3-4 AM, when nobody is awake and everything is peaceful and quiet. It really works well for me. However I suggest you don't take it any further (and study/read/whatever you do way late, because that really really ****s you up in all kinds of ways...).
 

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@RedPill: Thanks for the motivation. Yes, I sure could do with better influence, but have long accepted them as they are and moved on.

Unfortunately, the crux is the actual physical chaos that is impairing my learning, development and work.

Like madgame, I stay up late to have some semblance of productivity. It's been happening for years and sure, looking back I've grown much but the progress is way too slow and other aspects of my life is suffering. For one my social life is screwed up.

The only way out at the moment seems to be to join the military.

@madgame: Hang in there mate. Do well in College and start your life.
 

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Can I step in, here?

There's rich, and there's rich.

I make about $60K a year. But I have an awesome life. I live like a millionaire. No seriously. I don't have a Ferrari or a penthouse. I've got something better.

I don't go to work.

It's taken me ten years to get here. I own three small businesses, and am a part owner in two more. I worked a day job for ten years, lived at home for two until I bought my first business -- a $40,000 partial stake in a pair of dump trucks that were leased to a contractor -- and spent the next eight years putting every spare cent into savings to buy new business ventures. Some of these are doing very well. One of them is going gangbusters. A few have gone t!ts-up and the companies themselves have gone bankrupt. I net around $5K a month, and I work about ten hours a week. Sometimes less.

My secret? I have a Business degree and a hell of a lot of patience.

Being a business owner is the ONLY way to go. I see you miserable bastards working 50 hours a week including your commute, for the same money, crammed into cubicles, crammed into gridlock, working jobs you hate. You couldn't pay me enough to go back to "work." I've got a next-door neighbor who's a VP at a software company and he makes four times what I do, but his life sucks. All he does is work.

A lot of you have a problem: someone told you that the way to get ahead was to work, and save, and invest, and then retire. HA! Invest? What's a good 401(k) turning right now -- 5%? If you're lucky? My first $40,000 investment netted me $10,000 the first year. Net. That's a 25% return. Now, you may think, "$10,00 a year? I can't live on that!!" And you're right. But in ten years, when you have 5 or more businesses each netting $10K per year -- in my case, one of them considerably more -- well, do the math.

I was lucky: my father owned his own business, and didn't want me to become a coporate guy. He put this idea into my head when I was in college. I just recently bought into his company as an owner.

There's a book -- I hadn't read it when I first went down this road, it was recommended to me by someone when I told them what I was working on. Read *Rich Dad, Poor Dad* by Kyosaki (sp?).

Finish college, go Finance or Business, and then be broke for a few years and save everything. Every dollar. Drink Folgers instead of Starbucks for three years. Rent a basement apartment. Eat homemade skirt steak fajitas and tuna fish. Drive your beater Subaru from high school. Hang out a dive bars and only hit Happy Hour. Use your savings to start a business. Or two. Or five. By the time you're 30, you'll be living like a f---king playboy, and you'll have all day to spend in the gym so you can go compete with the miserable 25-year-olds at night. They'll be whining about the lives they hate, and you'll be saying, "Hey, it's only midnight. I don't have to be anywhere tomorrow. Who wants to go have a drink on my boat?"
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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