So I started a thread yesterday about this older single mom who had a terribly written profile. Here it is for reference: http://imgur.com/daBZcJJ
Anyways, I sent her a neutral message that wasn't insulting, but was honest and blunt. Basically the theme was: You come off bitter and b!tchy, and while Im sure you might be a good woman, no decent guy is going to take the time to find out. You catch more flies with honey than with vinegar.
Anyways she replied positively and actually edited her profile. It sounds loads better now. And from talking to her, she really doesn't seem like a bad chick. But boy oh boy...this next screen cap stood out a lot to me.
http://i.imgur.com/qRdll7M.png (and when shes talking about "1 or 2 isnt bad", shes talking about how usually only gets 1 or 2 decent messages a day. And thats out of 40 a day she estimated in total. I told her despite all the short or rude messages she gets all day, 1 or 2 sincere messages is still good.)
But I mean, I'm not surprised some women want the bad boy look without the baggage of the bad boy personality. I cannot throw too much hate on her though. She wants a particular look...and the reality is that we all do. But it seemed so typical. And she did seem willing to go the "ill let the attraction grow with a guy" route. Which could basically set some poor guy up as a nice guy provider who shes not terribly attracted to.
This might not be by her design, but its a possibility. Im basically just going to tell her not to settle. We all know attraction is important in a relationship. And we like what we like. Sh!t, its the decent advice I can give if itll save some dude the trouble of being strung along or used.
This all said...goddamn its funny to read through profiles and talk to some of these older women online. I swear it doesn't feel that much different from talking to women in their 20s once you break through their shield.
And if youre wondering why Im couger or milf hunting...its because Im in my late 20s and want to experience dating a much older woman before I feel old myself. Its a hot fantasy of mine to date a sexy gal in her 40s actually.
Anyways, I sent her a neutral message that wasn't insulting, but was honest and blunt. Basically the theme was: You come off bitter and b!tchy, and while Im sure you might be a good woman, no decent guy is going to take the time to find out. You catch more flies with honey than with vinegar.
Anyways she replied positively and actually edited her profile. It sounds loads better now. And from talking to her, she really doesn't seem like a bad chick. But boy oh boy...this next screen cap stood out a lot to me.
http://i.imgur.com/qRdll7M.png (and when shes talking about "1 or 2 isnt bad", shes talking about how usually only gets 1 or 2 decent messages a day. And thats out of 40 a day she estimated in total. I told her despite all the short or rude messages she gets all day, 1 or 2 sincere messages is still good.)
But I mean, I'm not surprised some women want the bad boy look without the baggage of the bad boy personality. I cannot throw too much hate on her though. She wants a particular look...and the reality is that we all do. But it seemed so typical. And she did seem willing to go the "ill let the attraction grow with a guy" route. Which could basically set some poor guy up as a nice guy provider who shes not terribly attracted to.
This might not be by her design, but its a possibility. Im basically just going to tell her not to settle. We all know attraction is important in a relationship. And we like what we like. Sh!t, its the decent advice I can give if itll save some dude the trouble of being strung along or used.
This all said...goddamn its funny to read through profiles and talk to some of these older women online. I swear it doesn't feel that much different from talking to women in their 20s once you break through their shield.
And if youre wondering why Im couger or milf hunting...its because Im in my late 20s and want to experience dating a much older woman before I feel old myself. Its a hot fantasy of mine to date a sexy gal in her 40s actually.
