"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Old plate returns - Short Guide

Yorkex

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Usually starts with the random phone call or " hey stranger" message.

So what now ?
I'm pretty sure at this stage of the game you can add 1+1 together and conclude the only reason she massaged you back is BECAUSE her plates/obiters are not doing their jobs properly.

Step 1. Don't rush anything !
Step 2. Make her work for your time.
Step 3. Engage then detach.

Real Story

One of my plates I put in NC because she didn't want to give me sex. I went about my life , doing the things I love and staying active. She hit me with the usual " heey stranger " message last Monday.
I replied Tuesday morning with a casual and short reply. She went on again skin about how I have been , I gave another short reply. ** usually I would try heard to impress her or entertain her ** SMH !!

She messaged me again on Friday night & i asked her what's she is up to that late and she said she was bored. I told her to come with me on a ride around town ...now usually when I do this with her , I bring her to my place and drink and sex BUT this time I didn't. I dropped her off and told her I have to help one of my female friends move something.

Following day she messaged me about what I'm doing & i ignored it. She went on a little rant on Facebook then she messaged again asking if I didn't get the message and I was straight forward " I did but it was too plain for me to respond".

Last night she messaged me again that she wants to hang out , I told her to bring a bottle to my place and I'm guessing you know what went on ;)
Back to NC till she reaches out then rinse and repeat.

Bittches love to WORK for ****.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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