"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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(OLD) one night stands

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How long into a date before you knew you could bed her down. What were some of the tell tale signs for you? I usually know within about 15 minutes if it's a lost cause or extra work.

Also do you guys find that by the 3rd date most of them put out if your willing to let it get that far?

If I hear any of the following during the date it's a done deal unless I screw up. Feel free to add to the list.

1. I have to pick my kids up from the babysitter by midnight. Or my kids are with my ex husband tonight. (Single moms)

2. I'm looking for a LTR conversation within first 15 mins

3. I want to have kids she's looking for a husband conversation within first 15 minutes

4. My hairstylist charged me x amount for my hair today or clothing. (She got dolled up for me and wants to get her money's worth)

5. My ex boyfriend would be so jealous rite now.

6. That was fun, so what are we doing next.

7. You look like you go to the gym etc.

8. You look better than your profile
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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AlphaNate

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1, 2, 3, 5: I'm not even sticking around to pay the check.

4: Red flag, tread with caution.

6, 7, 8: There is nothing wrong with these. Stop having a complex about everything.
 

old_skoolr

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30 min in the first date.

Usually try and fvck them on that date then waste anymore.

Kino and hair playing is my signs.
 
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1, 2, 3, 5: I'm not even sticking around to pay the check.

4: Red flag, tread with caution.

6, 7, 8: There is nothing wrong with these. Stop having a complex about everything.

I hear you on 1,2,3,5 but those are signs that I can take it to pound town, not saying I will. I was hoping you guys would add more signs.

4, again I take anything they say like that as a sign they want to hookup. Why do you say red flag caution? Other than she's a gold digger or the like?
But she's getting nothing from me.

6,7,8 no complex just pointing out signs I have noticed that got me laid every time I heard them in the past and was wondering what others have heard so they could share.
 

wifehunter

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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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