"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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OLD lies. What's some of the good ones you've seen on profiles?

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Then why do a lot of posters on here say they deleted their OLD accounts and that they hate it?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Then why do a lot of posters on here say they deleted their OLD accounts and that they hate it?
Thats why you dont do OLD unless u love being in low tier selection peers.
 

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Then why do a lot of posters on here say they deleted their OLD accounts and that they hate it?
I'd bet money that half the members that 'claim' to having deleted their profiles haven't. Sort of like high school, there are members here that are very image conscious... and they don't want to appear 'un-cool' among their peers.

In the past, there used to be a few needles in the haystack on OLD. I actually had a few additional good relationships that wouldn't have occurred otherwise. In the past few years though, it looks (at least in my area) like a lot of low hanging fruit. It's probably been close to two years since I personally was inspired.
 

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I was once catfished by what I thought was a gorgeous lady.

We flirted for years.

I thought she was the one.

Finally, I drove out to meet her.

She said she lived in the desert.

Turned out she was a cactus.

God. Damn. It.
 

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it shocks me these scammers cant come up with more believable profiles. Its usually pictures of some super hot chick in their 20s but when they list their age in the profile its 45 or higher. Or when you message them right away they want to give your their phone number to text or steer you to an email they want to use instead. Pretty easy to spot the fakes, you would think they would be better at this .
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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it shocks me these scammers cant come up with more believable profiles. Its usually pictures of some super hot chick in their 20s but when they list their age in the profile its 45 or higher. Or when you message them right away they want to give your their phone number to text or steer you to an email they want to use instead. Pretty easy to spot the fakes, you would think they would be better at this .
Some of the fakes are pretty good on match, tinder etc. A lot of times they will steal peoples photos from facebook to make it look real. Like one hb8 50 miles away I was talking to on match had a realistic profile. Online about 16 hours a day it seems. She asked how far my town is from her even though she claims to have lived here for years and everyone knows where this city is located lol. These scammers around here look for single old men to scam money from. Old guys are dumb enough to wire money. It's in the news every so often.

An hb 8 or 10 and online every single hour screams scammer. Anytime I see hb9 or above its fishy.
 

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I suggest you whrow that old into your dusbin, start living alone with yourself for a while, find your interest in study field, get back to school , involve in activites and gym, and get laid, that way more progressive, you get girl.. Higher education, more money, credential, secure your future, living healthy life, live like a decent man.. Stop living like this, get your vision fix in your head.
this is the best advice
 

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You don't think this OLD girls are el primo girls, at least most of them? If there were in high demand would they be on OLD?
Refer back to the shelf and write off goods i just mention about.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Refer back to the shelf and write off goods i just mention about.
Why do you think the last 6 or so years the quality of women has gone way down on old? And as others have stated it used to be easy to use short pickup lines and half arsed messages and get replies back as well years ago fairly easy compared to today.

I used old briefly some years back and the quality level of women was tons better than today.
 

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Why do you think the last 6 or so years the quality of women has gone way down on old? And as others have stated it used to be easy to use short pickup lines and half arsed messages and get replies back as well years ago fairly easy compared to today.

I used old briefly some years back and the quality level of women was tons better than today.
More and more damaged, sociopath, psychopaths, women and men who entraps found it useful to get their supplies and be on their way, an emotionally healthy person well aware of this..

Short answer..

Water seeks its own level, and birds of a feather flock together are really true. We are in fact, magnetized to individuals who precisely match our own level of emotional development.

Someone who is truly emotionally available, doesn't remain involved with somebody who is not. Wishful thinking can't make another love you or treat you better.. Good women were long gone from old as more and more damaged women and men seeking for their prey at your favourite OLD.
 

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More and more damaged, sociopath, psychopaths, women and men who entraps found it useful to get their supplies and be on their way, an emotionally healthy person well aware of this..

Short answer..

Water seeks its own level, and birds of a feather flock together are really true. We are in fact, magnetized to individuals who precisely match our own level of emotional development.

Someone who is truly emotionally available, doesn't remain involved with somebody who is not. Wishful thinking can't make another love you or treat you better.. Good women were long gone from old as more and more damaged women and men seeking for their prey at your favourite OLD.
Also add in smartphones makes it so easy to use OLD and check your OLD anywhere you're and now you have every Tom **** and Harry using it. Like women I've talked to and been on dates with tell me how they literally get bombarded from guys of all age daily. I mean like outnumbered 10-1. A coworker told me they used their male friends Match account and couldn't believe how lopsided it is men vs women on OLD compared to the other way around and they send lewd pics, raunchy messages many of these men.

It seems the decent women might have been scared off OLD too or they join and simply get overwhelmed by messages and pervs they simply delete their account because 10 years ago you saw normal women using it. Down here a lot of old men use it, send d*ck pics. IMO that scares decent women away.
 

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Profile says “I’m independent and If you can’t handle a strong independent woman then swipe left.”

Reality “I live with my parents. “
 

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Profile says “I’m independent and If you can’t handle a strong independent woman then swipe left.”

Reality “I live with my parents. “
Or nobody actually wants me, your bullsheet threshold must be skyhigh to be with me..
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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I'd bet money that half the members that 'claim' to having deleted their profiles haven't. Sort of like high school, there are members here that are very image conscious... and they don't want to appear 'un-cool' among their peers.

In the past, there used to be a few needles in the haystack on OLD. I actually had a few additional good relationships that wouldn't have occurred otherwise. In the past few years though, it looks (at least in my area) like a lot of low hanging fruit. It's probably been close to two years since I personally was inspired.
I looked in your region on OLD you told me you lived in when you lived here in FL. And I thought my region of FL was bad with lack of choices. WOW! I saw literally nothing in your region more than HB4 and most were damaged goods women and not a lot of women. Closest decent ones were all the way in Gainesville, the college town! Wow. It seems on OLD down here unless you live in the 4 populated metro areas here in FL you're wasting your time on OLD unless it's a college town. I saw some nasty stuff in your area on OLD. I guess in your area you could look all the way near The Villages and Ocala for a GILF lol.

I still browse OKcupid which is 98 percent trash, but even in Miami I get tons of hot chicks showing up on there. How can there be a 360 degree difference between my region and Miami. No hot chicks on there in this region but SEFL crawling with them. Granted some of those are fake profiles on there.
 
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