"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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ok. which is better? kiss during or after the movies?

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Alright I'm taking this 20yr old to watch Twilight tonight at midnight,she's about a 9, -9.1 around.

She loves this Twilight crap, romance movie, I was wondering should I drop the liplock during the movie or afterwards outside near the beach view?

Never kissed b4 at movies, so I want some advice from those familiar with the situation, during the movie or outside?

Thanks
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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You just got to do what feels natural. If you feel it's natural, do it. If you feel it is unnatural, don't do it. It's the way you should approach life for the most part.

If you're programmed to do exactly the same things at the same settings you are no longer human.
 

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Wtf are you doing taking a woman to a movie for a first date? Not only that, its a CHICK FLICK!

You're already putting her on a pedestal, and you haven't even touched her yet. If you take a woman on an action date, there's plenty of opportunity to interact, touch, kiss, and you are doing something you enjoy.
 

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Dude its not the first date.
I already kisses her cheek before, want to advance from it now
 

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Ask her if she has a vampire fetish.
She'll probably say no, then say "Okay so you won't get turned on if I do this." And bite her neck.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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