"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Ok to tell a girl?

Warrior74

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Jariel said:
This is the part that bothers me. Never let a girl speak to you like that! You should've told her "I'm not your slave" or "hold them yourself". It sounds like she's a bit of a prima dona to me and you're wise to cut contact for a while...maybe permanently, unless she changes her attitude.

But in answer to your question, don't tell her what you plan to do. Just cut contact for a few days and if she asks just tell her you're a bit busy at the moment, then continue cutting contact.

Yah that was the first part that jumped out to me. I don't hold purses and shoes and shyt. You got hands girl.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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liptonteadrinker

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today drew the last straw. She text me asking me for my employee id for work to use my discount. I simply told her no and she tripped the **** out.
Im glad its over.
 
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