"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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ok to game girls on new years?

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djinhell

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Hi guys

New Years eve and the holidays in general are a good time to go out with friends to bars and clubs, especially new years. My question is, do you think it is ok to try and get with girls on new years eve..?

I'd like to think its ok, but you could argue that the girls that are out just want to celebrate the new years with their friends and might be hostile to anyone trying moves them?

what you think?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Gamble

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of course, have fun! there are going to be some dragons(girls that are going to be hostile and play hard to get), but the majority is out there to party and meet someone new and exciting to hookup with
 
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thats good to know. im going out this weekend and obviously new years...just didn't know whether gaming during this season was considered no-go. But I guess the fact that because its a new year starting, a lot of single girls will be hoping to start it with a bang :)
 
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bukowski_merit

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yes... the majority of single women who go out for new years have a desire to be swept off their feet before midnight... they don't want the ball to drop and not have some lips to kiss... they can actually be more receptive to approahes than normal (depending on who they're with, etc.)

a lot of people break up on new years too =)
 
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