"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Bigtrucker2008

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Ok, I'm going to need some help with this.....

Ok, there's a girl who I kinda have my eye on. I'm cool with all her friends and her and we always laugh and joke with each other. I want to take this thing to the level of her wanting me. Thing is... I DONT KNOW WHAT TO DO.

See, the thing is some of her friends somehow guessed that I was kinda diggin her. And they are always tryna be funny with me about it. And they know my reputation for talking to and getting with girls, and I don't know if that's a minus or plus right now. Also, i don't know if they've been trying to somewhat "****block" me.

My question is, what do I do to get this girl? Remember, I'm cool with her, but we're not just cool enough to be at that "I wanna be just friends so our relationship doesnt get ruined" stage.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Just keep escalating the relationship. Go to hugging then holding hands, then kissing. Take small steps and don't push your luck if u feel you have no game.
I'm in a similar position that I will be taking care of tonight. yay
 
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