squirrels
Master Don Juan
- Joined
- Apr 15, 2003
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- Age
- 44
Over the last week or two, I've really started to "feel" the "Don Juan" attitudes we all discuss. I've started to take responsibility for defining my role in the universe. I've learned to answer only to myself. I've started to take control of my feelings, and I've started to take what I want without apology or excuse.
The only thing is....I DON'T KNOW WHAT I WANT.
I feel like I'm finally in control of my emotions, but somehow I don't have any emotions left. I take what I want, but I really don't want anything.
I see women out at places that I go, and I say to myself, "She is beautiful, she is a sexual being, and I know that I should be attracted to her." But I still don't get her. Because I don't FEEL ANY SEXUAL AROUSAL in her presence.
Same with my hobbies. I modify my car with performance parts to make it go faster, and I feel that I want to go faster, but I don't FEEL ANY PASSION for speed. When I go climbing, I know that I want to get better and progress to harder climbs, and I know that I should put energy into completing these climbs, but I DON'T FEEL DRIVEN to go the extra distance.
Does anyone else ever feel like this? I think I've finally shed that shell I built around my ego and I'm in control of my spirit. Before I was a king with a cause, but without an army. Now I'm a king and an army without a cause. I am a DJ with no passion for women.
Does anyone else ever lose their desire, their passion, or their lust for life and for things like women? How do you cope?
I've got a vacation coming up in a few days. What should I do? Where should I go? I know I still have these desires and now that I feel I can control them, I want to feel them again. I want them to be stronger. How do I find these feelings again within myself? I feel like I hid from them for so long because I wasn't strong enough to control them, and now that I've become strong enough to control and wield my passions and my desires and my emotions, they've all left me.
A word of advice? Not that I expect any ground-breaking Pook-ism or other word of wisdom to help me re-find my passions. Just someone tell me that they've been through this.
The only thing is....I DON'T KNOW WHAT I WANT.
I feel like I'm finally in control of my emotions, but somehow I don't have any emotions left. I take what I want, but I really don't want anything.
I see women out at places that I go, and I say to myself, "She is beautiful, she is a sexual being, and I know that I should be attracted to her." But I still don't get her. Because I don't FEEL ANY SEXUAL AROUSAL in her presence.
Same with my hobbies. I modify my car with performance parts to make it go faster, and I feel that I want to go faster, but I don't FEEL ANY PASSION for speed. When I go climbing, I know that I want to get better and progress to harder climbs, and I know that I should put energy into completing these climbs, but I DON'T FEEL DRIVEN to go the extra distance.
Does anyone else ever feel like this? I think I've finally shed that shell I built around my ego and I'm in control of my spirit. Before I was a king with a cause, but without an army. Now I'm a king and an army without a cause. I am a DJ with no passion for women.
Does anyone else ever lose their desire, their passion, or their lust for life and for things like women? How do you cope?
I've got a vacation coming up in a few days. What should I do? Where should I go? I know I still have these desires and now that I feel I can control them, I want to feel them again. I want them to be stronger. How do I find these feelings again within myself? I feel like I hid from them for so long because I wasn't strong enough to control them, and now that I've become strong enough to control and wield my passions and my desires and my emotions, they've all left me.
A word of advice? Not that I expect any ground-breaking Pook-ism or other word of wisdom to help me re-find my passions. Just someone tell me that they've been through this.