"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Ok, heres a question for you DJ's! Need Advice!

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I went out with a woman, (Who told a colleague of mine that she thought I was "awfully cute") twice, once dancing, once for dinner and a movie. The dancing was HOTT lots of grinding, "dirty dancing" great eye contact, but the BS "I have to work in the AM" after. The dinner and a movie (Which we split, financially) (midweek) was medicocre.....good conversation, a boring film, a hug goodnight in the parking lot of the theatre.... So I thought, "thats it"....I didnt bother contacting her afterwards.....

Well, at the restaurant where I am a barback, she shows up on Sunday. First she kind of went up behind me, "dont you talk anymore?" We shared a hug, ect. When I got off duty, I was talking to a (female) friend at the bar, and she came up to me, and wanted to talk some more, asked me why I hadnt called her, seemed kind of bugged that I had not. We asked each other about our weekends, and I told her truthfully, that mine was dull, and she said, "Well, if you would have called me, we could have had an interesting time" She again wrote her number down for me, and told me that she was busy "this week" but wants to go out again "after this week" Great eye contact, and a pretty sensual hug goodnight.

Now, after the boring movie date, I thought she just wanted the LJBF bull$$hhitt. I also thought she was just being a little cocckktease after basically copulating with me on the dancefloor, and then leaving me "high and dry" at the end of the night.

So, after Sunday, and her handing me her number, what should I do, or what would you guys do?

A. Kino her like a muthherflocker on our next date, and "go for it" as far as a kiss, and trying to entice her into a bedroom....

B. Remain cool and aloof, and see what happens

C. Forget her, she is playing games

I guess "A" seems the correct answer here, where should I take her, and on what night of the week?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Her IL is incredibly high. I'd say continue dating.

As for the dinner and movie, those are guaranteed boring dates. Try avoiding dates where you sit there and ignore each other. Find some action-filled dates and you'll find that things will go much better.
 
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Hey son, they say first impression is a *****! But in this case, it was your best friend!

She has a great first impression of you from the dancing, so she does not see you as an afc or a punk.

Now, these DATES, kid, we dont date anybody. We take them along for OUR rides.

Anything of action would be fine. I mean think about it, do YOU want to be sitting around watching The Incredibles or bowling or bumper car riding or something where you can touch and feel and beat her ass in the game!

I hate to sound like a Chuck E. Cheese commercial, but lets have....

FUN! FUN! FUN!

Hey boy, this is the best time to be alive! Lets grab our hoes, and go out and DO something! Lets laugh and fall on our asses and play games and beat her ass at them! Get our kisses in! Then take her in our cars and pull out the magnums, slip them on, and fvck her till the damn cows home!
 
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asked me why I hadnt called her, seemed kind of bugged that I had not

ok this is the important question DID SHE HAVE YOUR NUMBER

if yes then she is playing games

if no then you try and kiss her next date

if she doesn't respond to the kiss then you know she is an attenton wh0re

and this should have happened on the second date

if not the first

A. Kino her like a muthherflocker on our next date, and "go for it" as far as a kiss, and trying to entice her into a bedroom

you are playing catch up football


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**AUSTRALIAN STREET PIMP**
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Originally posted by JackPrescott
I went out with a woman, (Who told a colleague of mine that she thought I was "awfully cute") twice, once dancing, once for dinner and a movie. The dancing was HOTT lots of grinding, "dirty dancing" great eye contact,
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Why didn't you kiss her there and then? The scene was set, and you were good to go.
 
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yes Hellboy i was thinking the same thing lol

then i see you getting aunti hugs from her i am like

what a waste when you were doing so well


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**AUSTRALIAN STREET PIMP**
 
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You young jets are nuts!!

If a girl wants to grind then do it in private and not on a dance floor!!! How could a girl who grinds in public say "No" to you in private??? HUH???

Quit treating hors as if they are proper!

Don't hug a ho - Boink her!
 
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excellent reply prl!

Kid, thats why when you get done with one song, pull her freeaky azz to a quiet spot and ( you know what to do), then get her to leave the club with ya! You got it bro.
 
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Quote - PVSSY-EATER
excellent reply prl!

you are a made man now PRL

your got the P-E seal of approval :)

P-E how we going with getting you a new name ?

whats the status on that ?



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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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P-E, LIT - did you get my pm's -- i suggested a few names for him - pm me.
 
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Originally posted by PVSSY-EATER
BY THE WAY.....How did I become a senior don juan already? Hahaha.....thats cool.
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Because you have over 200 posts - when you reach 500 you become a master and when you reach 4,000 posts you become a post hor like me !!!:D

Now quit being a post hor and read the PM I sent you!!
 
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Originally posted by PVSSY-EATER
Hey son, they say first impression is a *****! But in this case, it was your best friend!

She has a great first impression of you from the dancing, so she does not see you as an afc or a punk.

Now, these DATES, kid, we dont date anybody. We take them along for OUR rides.

Anything of action would be fine. I mean think about it, do YOU want to be sitting around watching The Incredibles or bowling or bumper car riding or something where you can touch and feel and beat her ass in the game!

I hate to sound like a Chuck E. Cheese commercial, but lets have....

FUN! FUN! FUN!

Hey boy, this is the best time to be alive! Lets grab our hoes, and go out and DO something! Lets laugh and fall on our asses and play games and beat her ass at them! Get our kisses in! Then take her in our cars and pull out the magnums, slip them on, and fvck her till the damn cows home!
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Ok, I got it, great advice, thanks everyone who responded.
 
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